Don't Fall in Infatuation Love
Many people who fall in love so instantly. Mostly people thinking its a Love at First sight. But it is not. It just a surprise feeling of emotion that feels so good on the first time. But If both realize what they really felt. It suddenly collapse.
The sad part of it. Is the denial of the fact that they where not meant for one another. I do understand it really. All people only wished is to love someone and to be love by that person. But after the first time and continue the intimacy between you. After that is no more. Unlike if you knew the person and start to fall in-love by the years passes by. That's true love. And what ever happen, no one can tear you apart. And how you going to deal the pain of getting hurt if you feel is truly for that person and that person don't feel the way you do?
Some people say's that MOVE On or MOVING FORWARD. Actually is easier to say than to do it. Even how many consultant we going to ask and many advises we gather. If we still stick on it. Our mind on them. And still feel the compassion between you and that person. Its hard to heal. Maybe months or years before it heals. And even it heals, it will not that easy to enter in another relationship. Feel afraid on might hurt you again. The result is to devastated them and ignore them.
Actually even I suffering for this kind of feeling. That's why I am trying my very best as well. Do be normal as if it did not happen at all. Cheering up other people is very easy. But to cheer own-self, sometimes make me feel so stupid. But think again, no one can understand you better than your self. Consulting our closer friend will be relief too. But only acceptance of what happen and what is the reality all about. All of you will be release in such pain. And learn to move on instantly. And be free to love without any hesitation.
In my experience when I fall in-love with my friend, and he was fall for me too. I thought it was a wonderful thing that it ever happen to me. But we both realize infatuation in the only reason that we felt. And began to separate in one another. I also admit that it might really infatuation. Until I woke up. I am actually love him so much. But since we had to do the right thing. In GOD blessing i got move on. And fine someone who can full fill my emptiness. And now I met someone who will be the one I been seeking for, but he left me. He never trusted me. How lonely I am. Hope he is fine and healty. In that way of thinking I feel relief!!
